Check out this talk by Dallin H. Oaks on Marriage & Divorce. I love how cut and dry it is. I was on the church website looking up my sunday school lesson and came across it. I love to hear advice from the apostles. It makes darn good sense!
Marriage & Divorce
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Lib, Lib, Lib,That was a tough one for me to read. It makes me so sad for those I've hurt, especiall you and Jen and Dave. I sometimes wonder what would have been if I had found the church sooner.I like this quote from Dallin Oaks (who is becoming my favorite apostle; see his "Love and Law" talk at the October conference):"We know that some look back on their divorces with regret at their own partial or predominant fault in the breakup. All who have been through divorce know the pain and need the healing power and hope that come from the Atonement. That healing power and that hope are there for them and also for their children."So true. Love, DADDAD